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Monday, February 24, 2014

Power Rankings: Most Embarrassing Hobbies and Phases

My high school years were fraught with unrefined tastes. Four of the five hobbies and phases detailed herein occurred during the Pre-Book Brandon era—that is, the time spanning from birth to when I first willingly read a book (age 19).  I can make no better argument for the importance of reading than the horror that you, brave reader, are apparently poised to confront.

5) Linkin Park

Linkin Park released Hybrid Theory fourteen years ago, and this album’s presence in my cache of CDs serves as my personal warning against tattoos. In other words, what I consider cool, refined, or exemplary of me will eventually be dishonorable, brutish and antithetical to Future Brandon.

While working for my university’s newspaper staff one night, a fellow editor denounced my musical taste as “average,” alluding to the chorus of “Crawling” as evidence:

Crawling in my skin
These wounds they will not heal
Fear is how I fall
Confusing what is real

Not exactly Shakespeare, I granted him. My friend seized the opportunity, suggesting that liking Linkin Park and being snobby about literature was a form of cognitive dissonance.  While I did not care for that person at the time and have since contented myself with the subjective nature of my own musical taste, the encounter devastated me. He had deftly exposed that my very core featured a rube and a faux-intellectual failing miserably to coexist. And a Brandon divided against itself cannot stand.

4) Phog.net

A common interest forum for fans of KU athletics, this site contains separate forums for different sports, as well as for politics and the aptly named Ape Room (religion, pop culture, movies, Kate Upton, etc.).  I spend nearly every waking minute with Phog.net up on my browser. Even now, in the waning minutes of the work week, the tab is there, beckoning and tantalizing me like the lights of Las Vegas. I am mesmerized and compulsively drawn to it, like those who take their social security checks straight to the slot machines.

The understandable aspect of the hobby is the thirst for knowledge. Since KU basketball viewing is unabashedly my primary hobby, I wish to be abreast of any development or piece of information affecting the team. Are there any injuries? What is the spread for Saturday’s game? Is Doug Gottlieb trolling us on Twitter again?

Unfortunately, my crippling addiction to this site also owes to the omnipresence of debate. As a younger man, I avoided conflict—even virtual conflict—at any and all cost. These days, I exchange verbal fisticuffs with faceless strangers on all of, but not limited to, the following subjects: gun control, The Walking Dead, soccer, the JFK assassination, Phillip Seymour Hoffman as a source of empathy, and whether Perry Ellis is a deserving whipping boy for the board on the heels of a KU loss.

The realm is further appealing because typing things from behind a computer screen is easier than actually speaking to other people who happen to share my interests. (It’s both a warm memory and a harsh reminder of my gutlessness that I first approached my wife on Facebook.) And though there’s no mute button for people you’d like to ignore in real life, Phog.net extends the handy Ignore feature for those posters who reek suspiciously of K-State trolls. When I reflect with dismay on my diminishing social skills, I don’t have far to look for the culprit.

At this moment, my go-to time waster “is temporarily unavailable” due to scheduled maintenance. I feel like I’m missing a limb.

3) “A blind disregard for things other people liked until you somehow discovered their merit on your own” –Nick Sayre

Somewhere amid the tragic-comedy that was high school, I inexplicably developed a contrarian nature. That is, I willfully resisted anything that was wildly popular, perhaps as an unconscious attempt at recompense for some of the regrettable dalliances yet to come in this post. If I clearly could not trust others to tell me what was cool or worth my time, I would categorically reject anything and everything that attained mass appeal. Beneath the veneer of a Pro Cuts fade and GAP clothing beat the heart of a burgeoning hipster before hipsters existed. I was anti for the sake of being anti.

And so it was that I refused to read Harry Potter until the summer of the final book’s release. I also insulted my brother’s favorite band with the witless epithet “Jimmy Eat Poop.” Those who know me at all don’t need help in appreciating the irony, so I will only impart the following: One of the best and most memorable nights of my life included both a Jimmy Eat World concert in downtown Lawrence and the midnight release of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows. I sang along, word for word, to every song. I devoured all 759 pages of the book the next day. 

2) Dragon Ball Z

Commonly abbreviated DBZ, Dragon Ball Z is a Japanese anime television series that was eventually dubbed into English. The show follows the affable and casually powerful Goku, his son Gohan and the rest of the ragtag “Z team”—defenders of a world that is unaware of their existence or the various alien tyrants threatening to Alderaan the planet. The most appealing aspect of the show is that the characters possess otherworldly powers: They can fly (sometimes through mountains), move faster than agents in the Matrix, and shoot balls of energy through their hands. In this respect, at least, the show is not unlike many of the science fiction and fantasy films that have captured the imaginations of dorks across time and cultures.

Why the embarrassment, then? The first reason is self-evident: Dragon Ball Z is geared toward children. Though ostensibly a violent show—even the weakest characters pack more punch than all of Pakistan’s WMDs—viewers only occasionally wrestle with the concept of death. When a main character does die, he can be revived by a reptilian genie who can only be summoned when all of his “balls” have been located. The second reason is that the show sacrifices everything for suspense.  Entire episodes pass with characters hunched over, balling their fists and “powering up.” Between constipated grunts, heroes and foes may exchange some terse dialogue. Though there are plenty of titanic bouts between wild-haired combatants with powers that put the Twelve Olympians to shame, the show’s creators devote most of their attention in building up the importance of a given fight. In revisiting the epic Cell and Gohan tilt, I discovered that seven minutes and forty seconds of show-time pass before the two exchange a single blow.

Then there are the transformations. Once a character reaches a certain plateau in his training, and looks sufficiently constipated, he manages to transform. For Goku, Gohan, and the other Saiyans (did I mention that the show’s main protagonists are aliens, themselves?) this involves a change in hair color and eye color along with a substantial upgrade in strength and speed. The result is always a sight to behold, but you could listen to Don McLean’s “American Pie” and deep clean the bathroom before anything happens.

I’m only going to say this once, but my teenage brothers and I owned the following DBZ items:
  •  Actions figures
  • Wall scrolls
  •  A Vegeta button-up shirt (mine)
  • Most of the seasons on VHS cassettes

Also, for my film class’s final project, I constructed a DBZ music video to the timeless P.O.D. hit “Boom.” You may mock accordingly.

Though hardly a source of pride, I’m retrospectively pleased that I did not latch onto the show because of its popularity. My brother introduced me to Japanese animation and this show struck some chord1 with me. I only later learned—much to my astonishment—that other people my age watched the show. During one fateful basketball practice, my shoes squeaked so badly that my teammate quipped, “You sound like Cell from Dragon Ball Z.” My eyes widened in astonishment. “You watch Dragon Ball Z?” His reply serves as one of my favorite memories from high school (which should tell you quite a bit about my high school experience): “Man, EVERYBODY be watchin’ Dragon Ball Z.”

As great as that moment was, it was later tarnished to some degree when I realized that some of my teammates used “Let’s go watch some Dragon Ball Z” as their code for “Let’s go smoke weed.”

1) WWF

During my junior high years, everybody who was anybody watched the World Wrestling Federation. It was as indispensable to late 90’s coolness as wearing Abercrombie and Fitch. The only excuse I can offer up for the following paragraphs would be that conformity is essential to social survival when you’re a teenager. If left to view Wrestle Mania in a social strata vacuum, without the tastes of Southwest Junior High’s crème de la crème impinging upon me, I may never have developed a passing adoration for a beer swilling redneck giving people the bird and yelling monosyllabic words into a microphone. But that’s not a luxury you have when you’re 15. 

The essence of professional wrestling lies in the spectacle of two mammoth humans pretending to fight one another in front of a live audience. Prior to that, though, each participant waits for the cue of his distinctive theme song before emerging from behind the curtains, fixing the audience with a basilisk stare, and dramatically making his way to the ring where, depending on whether he’s a Heel or a Face, he’s cascaded with boos or applause. If the show were this simple, though, my dabbling would not serve as such a source of lasting shame. You see, televised wrestling attempts to combine its easily understood hand-to-hand combat element with actual story lines and drama. There’s endless plotting, ever-shifting alliances, and near-naked women occasionally tussling in a pool filled with some sort of lubricant. In short, it’s a poor man’s Game of Thrones.2

The fact that I watched the show—to say nothing of the time that passed before realizing every episode was fundamentally the same—should be reason enough for deep regret. But alas, I dug a deeper hole. Here, I’m forced to reflect upon and lament just how oppressive an elder sibling I was during my adolescence. Not only did I obsessively watch Monday Night Raw and incorporate Dwayne Johnson’s tired catch phrases3 into my daily speech, but I forcibly dragged my brother Nick into the muck.

My family used to own a trampoline—an omnipresent mowing headache in the backyard—that served as the confluence of my Neanderthal comportment and my brother’s passivity. Rather than filling his free time with any number of constructive and enjoyable pastimes, Nick endured countless hours of receiving The People’s Elbow and the Stone Cold Stunner. He became quite adept at feigning the appropriate reaction to whichever move I performed. I even made him play my theme song on a portable CD player as I emerged through the screen door and onto the deck. Van Halen’s “Right Now” filled Biltmore Drive’s summer air as I pounded a can of caffeine free Pepsi ala Stone Cold Steve Austin.

And since I’m so fond of mocking the linguistic choices of others, I’d be remiss to neglect mentioning one of the most embarrassing items to ever exist in my own lexicon, thanks in equal parts to this wrestling phase and a certain friend I had at the time: “Beasted” (verb). My friend would boast of “beasting” his sister into the family room couch with a Powerbomb or German suplex. Such stories and elaborate descriptions, unfortunately, only inspired me to up the ante with the backyard brawls. It was thus with much trepidation that Nick granted assent to me launching him off the deck and onto the trampoline below. I can only imagine the deluge of spite and terror filling his mind while on the receiving end of these airborne beastings. When I informed him of my intention to write on this subject, his response was a rather incisive commentary of our adolescent relationship: “There were times I didn’t like you very much, but we’re cool now. This is where I cross you off the to-kill list and relax with my guns and lipstick.”


Did not make the list on account of awesomeness: 

Being at the Lake, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Ghostbusters, Reading, Viewing Sports, Playing Sports.


1 Likely nothing more than that it sparked a desire to blast my teenage foes into oblivion with balls of energyI remember actively fantasizing about this.

I'm talking Eddie Murphy in "Trading Places" poor.

The most famous of which involved telling other adults that "it doesn't matter what your name is" and threatening to turn an eclectic array of items "sideways" before shoving them up the victim's "candy ass."

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